Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this Twentieth Anniversary Edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based upon feedback they've received over the years.
Their methods of communication-illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action-offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You'll learn how to:
1.Cope with your child's negative feelings-frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.
2.Express your anger without being hurtful
3.Engage your child's willing cooperation
4.Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
5.Use alternatives to punishment
6.Resolve family conflicts peacefully
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How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is an excellent communication tool kit based on a series of workshops developed by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Faber and Mazlish (coauthors of Siblings Without Rivalry) provide a step-by-step approach to improving relationships in your house. The "Reminder" pages, helpful cartoon illustrations, and excellent exercises will improve your ability as a parent to talk and problem-solve with your children. The book can be used alone or in parenting groups, and the solid tools provided are appropriate for kids of all ages.
About Author
Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between adults and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have won the gratitude of parents and the enthusiastic endorsement of the professional community.
Their first book, Liberated Parents/Liberated Children, received the Christopher Award for "literary achievement affirming the highest values of the human spirit." Their subsequent books, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and the #1 New York Times bestseller Siblings Without Rivalry, have sold over 3 million copies and have been translated into more than twenty languages. Their group workshop programs and videos produced by PBS are currently used by thousands of parents' groups around the globe. Their most recent book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn-At Home and in School, was cited by Child magazine as the "best book of the year for excellence in family issues and education."
Both authors studied with the late child psychologist, Dr. Haim Ginott, and are former members of the faculty of The New School for Social Research in New York City and The Family Life Institute of Long Island University. In addition to their frequent lectures throughout the United States and Canada, they have appeared on every major television show from "Good Morning America" to "The Oprah Winfrey Show." They currently reside in Long Island, New York, and each is the parent of three children.
From Los Angeles Times
"Designed to bring adults to the level of children, and children to the level of adults, so that this happy meeting ground can truly make for harmony in the home."
Book Dimension
Height (mm) 206 Width (mm) 138
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> What people desire most is being heard and understood.
>> Feel others’ feel.
>> See others how to do.
> Descriptive praises cultivate motivation.
>> Confidence drives one to become a better per...> What people desire most is being heard and understood.
>> Feel others’ feel.
>> See others how to do.
> Descriptive praises cultivate motivation.
>> Confidence drives one to become a better person.
> Win-win solution. (展开)
一开始翻开这本书的时候，我是把它定位在如何与孩子沟通的方向上的。可是越往后看，我就越觉得很多的案例，可是用在成人的培训中，尤其是沟通技巧方面，Interpersonal Skill or Communication Skill。 为什么呢？因为这本书在最初定的基调就是，把孩子作为跟你是平等的人对待...
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1 有用 achievements 2021-06-22 20:24:17
> What people desire most is being heard and understood. >> Feel others’ feel. >> See others how to do. > Descriptive praises cultivate motivation. >> Confidence drives one to become a better per... > What people desire most is being heard and understood. >> Feel others’ feel. >> See others how to do. > Descriptive praises cultivate motivation. >> Confidence drives one to become a better person. > Win-win solution. (展开)
0 有用 Viking 2007-09-09 10:52:53
如何说孩子才会听 怎么听孩子才肯说
0 有用 Eole 2017-09-13 10:41:55
最牛、最有用的一本育儿书，吊打99.9%的同类书籍。行文浅显易懂。只要过六级，看此书毫无压力。
0 有用 洛河小姐姐诶 2020-11-20 11:54:05
共情是所有人对话的黄金准则，而与孩子对话的共情的特殊性在于：除了要把孩子作为一个独立完整的人来尊重， 还需要考量孩子在不同年龄阶段的认知及情感发展程度，从而展开适合他/她的对话。
0 有用 McG 2018-05-22 23:40:33
Acknowledging feelings are the foundation of any talk!